Sunday, August 16, 2026

“Beautiful Feet” As a Braver Angels
“How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace, and bring glad tidings of good things.”
Romans 10:15
Sometimes I think people misunderstand what makes a person beautiful in God’s eyes.
It’s not fame.
It’s not power.
It’s not who talks the loudest in politics, churches, television, or social media.
According to God…
beautiful feet belong to people willing to carry peace into hurting places.
I picture an old messenger walking miles down a dusty road long before cell phones, television, or the internet. Villagers wait nervously:
“Did we lose the battle?”
“Is there hope?”
“Is peace coming?”
Then someone sees the messenger in the distance.
And before he even speaks…
people rejoice because he carries good news.
That’s what Paul the Apostle was saying in Romans.
Sometimes the greatest ministry is simply showing up carrying hope.
Not everybody can preach from a pulpit.
But all of us can carry peace into a room.
A phone call.
A kind word.
A conversation filled with grace instead of anger.
A listening ear when somebody feels forgotten.
That may be the most beautiful thing we ever do.
As my Sugar Bear bones gets older, I’m learning something:
America does not just need louder opinions.
It needs more people willing to walk toward others with courage, wisdom, vulnerability, and grace.
Beautiful feet are not perfect feet.
They are tired feet.
Forgiving feet.
Faithful feet.
Feet willing to walk across divides instead of building larger walls.
Jesus Himself walked toward broken people:
the rejected,
the sinner,
the doubter,
the fearful,
and the hurting.
And every step He took carried hope.
Maybe today the question is not:
“How strong is my argument?”
Maybe the better question is:
“What kind of spirit do I carry into the room?”
Because people may forget our speeches…
but they often remember who brought peace when fear was everywhere.
So today, Sugar Bear gives you a simple challenge.
Walk your faith.
Walk your grace.
Walk your courage.
And practice the 3-1-1 Challenge as a Courageous Citizen:
• Have 3 meaningful conversations every week:
• Invite 1 person into hope, connection, or understanding.
• Make 1 follow-up showing people they matter.
Not to win arguments.
Not to defeat enemies.
But to remind people they are still human beings created by God.
Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is simply walk toward people instead of away from them.
That’s what beautiful feet look like.
God bless you and this ministry!


 


Serendipitous Thoughts by Sugar Bear
What Would Jesus Think?
“In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 2:5
There is an old saying that carries jazz in its bones: “Man will become better when you show him what he is like.” My grandma Maggie might have said it this way: “Baby, a man won’t clean his shoes till he sees the mud he’s tracking through the house.”
Now that is kitchen-table theology. That is porch wisdom. That is the kind of truth that does not shout, but it sure does sing.
I remember when folks wore bracelets and put bumper stickers on cars asking, WWJD — What Would Jesus Do? That was a good question. But Philippians 2:5 takes us deeper. It does not only ask us to act like Jesus. It asks us to think like Jesus.
So maybe the question for today is: WWJT — What Would Jesus Think?
What would Jesus prioritize? What would He value? How would He see this person, this problem, this argument, this family tension, this political divide, this workplace frustration?
Now let’s be honest. Thinking like Jesus does not come naturally. At work, we may think about promotions, deadlines, or that coworker who always takes the last sugar cookie. At home, we may wonder why somebody cannot load the dishwasher right, wipe off the counter, or do things the “correct” way — meaning my way.
In politics, we may become know-it-all naysayers instead of courageous citizens seeking common-ground sense solutions.
And sometimes the test is even stranger than criticism. Sometimes a friend gives us positive feedback, encouragement, or a loving word, and because something inside us feels exposed, we get our feelings hurt and run away. Instead of receiving grace, we retreat. Instead of building a relationship based on vulnerability, we protect our pride.
But that may be the very moment Jesus is inviting us to build our grace muscle the muscle that lets love in, receives correction without shame, and accepts encouragement without fear.
That is where Jesus flips the script.
The mindset of Christ moves us from me versus us to me serving us. Jesus valued people before pride, mercy before winning, humility before applause, and love before being right.
In the office, thinking like Jesus may mean stopping the gossip train and encouraging somebody instead. At home, it may mean choosing grace when we feel petty. In our 100-foot circle of influence, it may mean noticing someone who feels invisible and listening without letting our biases and triggers take the lead. Across political lines, it may mean letting love and wisdom speak before labels do.
So the next time you are in a frustrating meeting, a family argument, stuck in political traffic, or tempted to run away after a friend has spoken truth or encouragement into your life, ask:
What would Jesus think?
Because when we begin thinking with the mind of Christ, we may find ourselves living with the love of Christ.
"It is not about me. It is about Jesus."
God bless you and this ministry!


 




 








SERENDIPITOUS THOUGHTS BY SUGAR BEAR
" What Do You Crave?"
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.”
Matthew 5:6
That is where courageous citizenship begins. A courageous citizen is not just hungry to be right; a courageous citizen hungers to do right.
In Braver Angels, we learn that courage is not shouting louder. Courage is listening deeper, speaking truth with love, and seeing the image of God even in people who disagree with us.
My Grandma Maggie would say, “Baby, don’t come to the table full of pride and empty of grace.” Righteousness teaches us to move from “me” to “we,” from winning the argument to healing the relationship, from feeding our anger to feeding our better angels.
Every day, little alarms go off inside of us. Our stomach growls. Our mouth waters. Our mind starts drifting toward whatever we crave. Hunger has a way of getting our attention.
I remember playing outside in park town ,for hours as a boy in Cincinnati. Sweaty. Dirty. Tired. I would come running into my Grandma Maggie’s house and head straight for the refrigerator. Grandma always seemed to have leftover Cincinnati 5-Way chili waiting on the stove or tucked away in the refrigerator even if dinner was only an hour away.
She would look at me and say:
“Boy, you done been outside all day playin’…
Now before you tear up my refrigerator, tell me
what are you really hungry for?”
Back then, I thought she was just talking about food. But now I realize Grandma Maggie understood something deeper about life and about God.
“A hungry stomach will make noise…
but a hungry soul will make confusion.”
God gave us physical hunger to teach us about spiritual hunger. Just like the body needs food, the soul needs truth, purpose, forgiveness, hope, justice, peace, and love.
Some people spend their whole lives feeding their bodies while starving their souls.
Grandma used to say:
“Ronnie, chili can fill your belly…
but only God can settle your spirit.” with her giant grandma Maggie smile; boy I miss you grand ma, and your
old sayings still sticks with me today.
Jesus said:
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.”
Not blessed are those who crave attention.
Not blessed are those who hunger for power.
Not blessed are those chasing applause, politics, money, or status.
Jesus said blessed are those who hunger for righteousness.
That means longing for what is right in the eyes of God. Wanting justice for others. Loving people who are hard to love. Standing for truth when it costs something.
Seeking God even when the world is chasing something else.
In God’s upside-down kingdom, the empty can be filled. The weak can become strong. The broken can find healing.
Jesus is the Bread of Life and the Living Water. He stands ready to fill every hungry heart that seeks Him.
So today, before you run to the refrigerator of the world, ask yourself:
What do you really crave?
God bless you and this ministry!



Serendipitous Thoughts by Sugar Bear
"When the Noise Gets Loud"
This past Sunday,I went to church carrying a simple prayer:
"Lord, show me the truth."
Sometimes that is a dangerous prayer.
Not because God is unwilling to answer it.
But because the truth often speaks louder than the voices we have learned to live with.
This morning I looked in the mirror.
What I saw was not perfect.
What I saw was not young.
What I saw was not without scars.
But what I saw was someone deeply loved by God.
Yet if I'm honest, another voice was speaking too.
The noise of pain.
The noise of old wounds.
The noise of disappointment.
The noise of fear.
The noise that says, "You should have done more."
The noise that says, "You are not enough."
The noise that tries to drown out grace.
The strange thing is, I don't really want to listen to that voice anymore.
Why?
Because I know who I am.
Not because I am tough.
Not because I played football.
Not because I taught school.
Not because I survived hard things.
I know who I am
because of whose I am.
That is what struck me about the sermon.
Luke keeps asking:
"Who is this man?"
The baby in the manger.
The man who calms storms.
The Savior who forgives sins.
The King who rises from the grave.
Who is this man?
The answer changes everything.
Because when I know who Jesus is, I begin to remember who I am.
The pastor talked about Simeon.
An old man waiting.
Listening.
Trusting.
Then one day he held Jesus in his arms and sang.
I love that line:
"The child who made an old man sing would one day break His mother's heart."
That is life, isn't it?
The things we love most often carry the greatest risk of heartbreak.
Children.
Friends.
Marriage.
Ministry.
Calling.
Love always costs something.
Yet Simeon sang anyway.
Mary loved anyway.
Jesus came anyway.
Perhaps faith is learning that God's song is still playing even when life sounds like noise.
The difference between noise and music is order.
The difference between chaos and hope is Christ.
The difference between merely surviving and truly living is discovering your place in God's song.
Today, I am reminded that I am not the composer.
I am not even the conductor.
I am simply invited to sing my part.
And that is enough.
"When the noise gets loud, don't listen to every voice. Listen for the One who knows your name."
God bless you and this ministry!

 



 Serendipitous Thoughts by Sugar Bear

"The Journey of a Word
Before It Reaches the Mind, It Passes Through the Heart"
"Words travel through the heart(emotions) before they reach the head(logic). We hear them through our experiences, our values, our wounds, and our hopes.
That's why the words 'courageous citizenship' do not sound the same to everybody."
As I sat in church this Sunday, the themes of Jubilee, freedom, and Juneteenth rested on my heart. My thoughts wandered to Luke 4, where Jesus stood in the synagogue and announced His mission:
"The Spirit of the Lord is upon me... to proclaim good news to the poor... freedom for the captives... recovery of sight for the blind... and the year of the Lord's favor."
Before I reflected on those words, I remembered a childhood moment.
I was a young boy about four years old staring at a wooden cross in church. It wasn't polished or beautiful. It looked heavy.
I asked my great grandma Mary who was blind why Jesus carried such a heavy cross.
She smiled and said, "Because love is heavy."
I didn't understand then.
I think I do now.
Love carries burdens.
Love forgives.
Love listens.
Love stays when it would be easier to walk away.
And if someone asked me today if I would carry that cross, my answer would be simple:
I'd do it again.
Not because the cross is light.
But because love is worth carrying.
That memory helped me hear Luke 4 in a fresh way.
Jesus did not begin with popularity, power, or public approval.
He began with identity and purpose.
Who am I?
What am I here to do?
How will I do it?
Luke 4 teaches a rhythm worth remembering:
Identity before temptation.
Mission before popularity.
Obedience before success.
That rhythm still matters today.
Before we are Republicans or Democrats, conservatives or progressives, we are children of God.
Before we are opponents, we are neighbors.
Before we are speakers, we are listeners.
One thing I've learned from psychology and my faith is that we all carry biases. Not because we are bad people, but because we are human.
Our experiences shape how we hear words and how we understand one another.
That is why humility matters.
When folks stop listening for the truth and start listening only for their side, the argument gets louder and wisdom gets quieter.
My grandma Maggie might have said it this way:
"A flower won't bloom because you pull on it. It blooms because you water it."
Relationships work much the same way.
Trust grows when it is nurtured.
Understanding grows when it is nurtured.
Communities grow when they are nurtured.
The older I get, the more I believe that courageous citizenship is simply love made visible in community.
It is what happens when faith leaves the sanctuary and walks into the neighborhood.
Courageous citizenship is not simply a policy statement.
It is a practice.
A practice of listening before judging.
A practice of humility before certainty.
A practice of hearing the biography before the ideology.
A practice of loving our neighbors even when we disagree with them.
Not because agreement is required.
But because dignity "is not about us!"
Jesus showed us that path.
He proclaimed truth.
He healed.
He listened.
He taught.
He invited.
He loved.
Perhaps courageous citizenship begins there:
Identity before ideology.
Humility before certainty.
Relationship before persuasion.
Contribution before criticism.
In a world that rewards outrage, choose understanding.
In a world that rewards division, choose relationship.
In a world that rewards certainty, choose humility.
Because the Kingdom of God is built one heart, one conversation, and one relationship at a time.
And remember:
Words travel through the heart before they reach the head.
May we know who we are.
May we remember why we are here.
May we walk faithfully in the way of Christ.
And may our lives proclaim good news wherever God sends us.
God bless you and this ministry!



Serendipitous Thoughts by Sugar Bear
“A Loud Listener Under the Plum Tree”
The convention was powerful, held in the City of Brotherly Love, Philadelphia, on the Temple University campus. I came home thinking about a plum tree: roots, trunk, branches, and fruit.
The roots are the stories that fed us the music that moved us, the reminders of faith, family, pain, teachers, neighbors, humility, and those old-school voices of curiosity that would not let us quit asking better questions.
Then comes the trunk of self-reflection. That is where we ask, “What talent do I have? Can I be vulnerable enough to ask, what commitment do I no longer believe? What would I do if I were not afraid?”
Genesis 50:20 reminds me, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good.”
That is not a permission slip for the pain of division. It is a testimony that God can redeem the hard road and make it serve a healing mission.
At the Braver Angels convention, I felt called to be a 'loud listener.'
Not loud with noise, but loud with presence.
Listen with your eyes.
Sit with someone you do not know.
Help them become the author of their own story. Ask, “How did you come to care about this mission? What crossroads are you at? What matters to you?”
That is where structure and relationship meet.
Braver Angels is powerful because it does not leave courage floating in the air. It gives courage a place to practice. Workshops give us the frame. Debates teach us how to disagree without destroying dignity.
Fishbowls help us hear pain without rushing to fix it. One-to-one conversations help us discover the self-interest beneath the opinion—the deep care, concern, passion, or calling that moves a person to act.
Alliance activities give ordinary people a way to turn concern into community action with citizen Led Solutions!
Structure is the trellis, but relationship is the vine. Without structure, the work can become scattered. Without relationship, the structure can become stiff.
But when the two come together, courageous citizenship becomes more than a phrase. It becomes a prowerful practicing norm!
That is the Mary Poppins of Braver Angels work:
a spoonful of Sugar Bear not sweetness without truth, but grace, humor, warmth, and honesty that help the medicine go down.
We are not trying to win people like arguments. We are trying to illuminate the brightness of their care, so they feel bigger, deeper, respected, and lit up.
Like jazz, courageous citizenship has a beat, a melody, and improvisation.
The beat is relationship. The melody is dignity. The improvisation is what happens when real people meet real fear and still choose curiosity over contempt.
Grandma Maggie might say, “Baby, don’t become the book. Read it, learn from it, but don’t let it close around your heart like a locked door.”
May we sit with those suffering politically. May we ask better questions. May we be vulnerable enough to listen, and courageous enough to build.
God bless you and this ministry!
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 Serendipitous Thoughts by Sugar Bear

“A Strong Horse Still Needs a Wise Courageous Citizen Rider”
“Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.”
Proverbs 14:34
I have lived long enough to know that America is not an easy story to tell.
Some folks want to wave the flag so hard they cannot see the wounds. Other folks want to point at the wounds so long they forget the blessings.
Galatians 5:15 says "if you bite and devour each other , watch out or you will be destroyed by each other. "
And my Grandma Maggie would have told me, “Baby, don’t curse the house just because the roof is leaking. But don’t sing so loud you ignore the water dripping on the floor.”
"Drip Drip Drip"
That sounds like America at 250.
A blessed house.
A wounded house.
A powerful house.
A divided house.
But still a house worth repairing.
The article from The Economist says America is anxious and awesomely powerful.
I think that is about right. Our politics may be wounded, but the country is not dead.
We still have people creating, teaching, building, serving, praying, inventing, farming, coaching, caregiving, and getting up early to do right by their families.
But strength is not the same as health.
A strong horse still needs a wise rider.
America has power. But power without wisdom can become pride.
Power without humility can become domination. Power without grace can become cruelty. And power without truth can become propaganda!
That is why I believe both sides need to slow down and take a breath.
To my conservative brothers and sisters, I say this with A spoonful of sugar Bear love:
patriotism is a beautiful thing. Borders matter. Law matters. A Courageous Citizenship matters. But patriotism must never become fear of the stranger, worship of a leader, or blindness to injustice. Every person still carries the image of God.
To my liberal brothers and sisters, I also say this with the same 🥄of love:
justice is a beautiful thing. Compassion matters. Inclusion matters. Repair matters. But justice must never become contempt for faith, tradition, rural people, working-class people, or folks who do not use the newest language.
Every neighbor has a story before they have a label.
My truth says this:
"America does not need more people trying to win every argument. America needs more people willing to tell the truth from the heart 'courageously' without trying to destroy their neighbor."
That is where my Christian faith checks me.
The kingdom of God and the kingdom of this world are not the same. The cross is not the flag. The church is not the government. Jesus is not running for office. My first Savior is not America, and my final hope is not a political party.
But that does not mean I stop caring about the country. It means I care with a different spirit.
In God’s kingdom, Christ rules by grace, forgiveness, repentance, mercy, and truth.
In the earthly kingdom, we still need law, order, justice, responsibility, and concern for the common good.
If we confuse the two, we can turn politics into religion and religion into politics. That is dangerous ground.
So I can love America without worshiping America.
I can criticize America without hating America.
I can honor the flag without forgetting the cross.
I can disagree with my neighbor without forgetting that Christ told me to love my neighbor.
That is the hard work for a courageous citizenship. That is the hard work of faith.
America at 250 is not asking us to choose between blind pride and bitter despair. She is asking whether we still have enough character to repair what is broken, protect what is good, confess what is wrong, and pass something better to the next generation.
Old school common folks used to say, “Don’t throw away the whole quilt because one patch is torn.”
Well, America’s quilt has some torn patches.
Some were torn by slavery.
Some by racism.
Some by greed.
Some by arrogance.
Some by broken families.
Some by forgotten towns.
Some by wounded veterans.
Some by children who feel lost.
Some by politicians and media voices who profit from keeping us angry.
But that quilt also has patches of courage, sacrifice, invention, faith, freedom, hard work, neighbor-love, and people who kept believing when they had every reason to quit.
So where do we go from here?(remember where you came from but don’t build your house in the Graveyard!)
We start where we are.
We listen before labeling.
We hear the biography before the ideology.
We stop sipping anger, fear, party loyalty, race pride, cable news, and social media until our spirit feels dizzy.
We remember that a nation can be powerful and still need repentance.
We remember that a people can be wounded and still have hope.
We remember that God does not call us to be loud first. He calls us to be faithful first.
At 250, America is still restless. That restlessness can become rage, or it can become renewal. It can become a shouting match, or it can become a better covenant with our children and grandchildren.
The founders were worried too. They knew this experiment could fail. But they also trusted that ordinary citizens, with enough virtue and courage, could help hold the republic together.
That means the question is not only, “Is America declining?”
The deeper question is, “Are we becoming the kind of people who can help renew her?”
Because a strong horse still needs a wise rider.
And a great nation still needs humble citizens.
God bless you and this ministry!